Be truthful without oversharing
Use current photos and accurate age, relationship status, and intentions. Honesty does not require publishing an address, finances, health records, or family identities. Correct material misunderstandings before a meeting or commitment.
Respect consent at every stage
A match, message, phone call, date, or past intimacy does not create permission for future contact or touch. Accept no promptly. Do not pressure someone to move off-platform, share images, reveal identity details, drink alcohol, or continue a meeting.
Communicate without abuse
Harassment, threats, degrading language, hate, stalking, and repeated contact after a boundary are unacceptable. Disagreement is not permission to humiliate. End contact and use platform controls rather than escalating.
Welcome different senior lives
Older adults vary in race, culture, disability, faith, gender, sexual orientation, relationship history, income, and family structure. Avoid stereotypes, fetishization, ageism, and assumptions about ability, technology, sexuality, or relationship goals.
Never request money or credentials
Do not ask matches for money, gift cards, crypto, investments, devices, account access, one-time codes, identity documents, or financial favors. Do not use romance to promote business opportunities or recruit someone into a transaction.
Protect the privacy of others
Do not publish private messages, intimate images, addresses, employers, relatives, or profile information without permission. Representative stories on this site use aliases and composite details. Respect the same boundary in your own conversations.
Put Community Guidelines into practice
- Be truthful without oversharing: Write down one decision this topic raises for your life today. Identify what you already know, what you still need to verify, and which boundary would keep the next step comfortable. Before acting, compare your answer with the person’s consistent behavior rather than early promises.
- Respect consent at every stage: Write down one decision this topic raises for your life today. Identify what you already know, what you still need to verify, and which boundary would keep the next step comfortable. Before acting, compare your answer with the person’s consistent behavior rather than early promises.
- Communicate without abuse: Write down one decision this topic raises for your life today. Identify what you already know, what you still need to verify, and which boundary would keep the next step comfortable. Before acting, compare your answer with the person’s consistent behavior rather than early promises.
- Welcome different senior lives: Write down one decision this topic raises for your life today. Identify what you already know, what you still need to verify, and which boundary would keep the next step comfortable. Before acting, compare your answer with the person’s consistent behavior rather than early promises.
- Never request money or credentials: Write down one decision this topic raises for your life today. Identify what you already know, what you still need to verify, and which boundary would keep the next step comfortable. Before acting, compare your answer with the person’s consistent behavior rather than early promises.
- Protect the privacy of others: Write down one decision this topic raises for your life today. Identify what you already know, what you still need to verify, and which boundary would keep the next step comfortable. Before acting, compare your answer with the person’s consistent behavior rather than early promises.